So just be like "I don't need IP but x,y,z is happening and I need A,B and C from you". ? and just hope that I don't push a boundary? Could it be he's just to squishy because he doesn't know me? How can I make him more like a T that I trust or need?

Do they have crisis teams that do home visits as an alternative to IP? They do if Child protective gets involved, so no not really.

Sidney, The thing is I'm not trying to keep stuff from him it's I have this "wonderful" skill of side tracking people unintentionally. Which is why I think I'll naturally do it less the more I trust him. It's only after the session that I'm like **** I did it again.