Stalwart, how has it been going for you all along? You reported a lot of severe concerns and then disappeared. This might mean two things - everything has improved so much that you do no need support or have time for the forum, or, everything has deteriorated so much that you are no longer within your right to use internet uncensored by the wife. So either things are ok or things are pretty bad. We are worried for you and would appreciate an update.

Also, it has been a month since Rose posted, and the tiny, subtle, but oh so effective ways for you to say "not right now" she suggested could have worked by now if practiced consistently. Have you tried them?