I had to post an update, b/c I feel really, really bad now - Denise told me she's going to pay for herself (park tickets, dining plan, and most of the flight - I'm still paying for the hotel), and said she's planning to give me about $500, maybe more. I feel bad and don't want to accept that much, but I'll gladly take some of it since it's tough going trying to pay for this trip1 However, now I wish I'd never posted this.

Anyway, I just wanted anyone who happens to read this post to know that she turned out ot do the right thing.