Thanks for all your replies guys! Interestign to see how people in here live their lives. There seem to be one common factor for most of us; family.
Could this be a trigging factor that we dont have a close relationship with our family? These are first and foremost the ones we "form" our personalities when we grow up. Take me for example; my mother and father have always been kind of antisocial, never dared to speak their mind, hide in group, never been vocal about anything, never expressed feelings to anyone but themselves. Personally growing up with this I feel it has shaped me in a lot of ways. Its not the only reason I am who I am today but growing up with an outgoing and social family I think I would have been someone totally different today. Whats your thoughts on this subject?