I know this space (your experience) very well. You need to learn who you are. You need to find out what you want and need. Find yourself. Others are just trying to tally you up to their expectations. Once you discover yourself enough, you will be able to pass off what others say about you. Expand your perspective. You do not need to be what others want you to be. Learning to love yourself is a lesson that can take a lifetime. Once you get a handle on "who you are", everything else begins to fall in place though. Find your center.