I let things go on not doing the job told too, and then told again. The wife's WHY, couple of times I repeated WHY, WHY did I do this or that? That word has gotten so old. She can rely get upset if I say anything about what she will be cooking. "I do all the preparing to fix the meal from scratch, which isn't easy, and you don't like it?" To night it was chicken salad, but with beef instead of chicken than goodness. Then I went for seconds and of course I got too much on my plate. Then I find it has turned cool-cold, and not tasting as well. Then she said why did you get that much when you could have saved it for your lunch tomorrow. I hardly wanted anything left over for the next. Then she tells me to just dump it all in the trash. And tells me how much it all cost. Like I can't avoid doing something wrong. We have been married 22 yrs. Don't argue any, but sometimes I feel I am being dictated to. Before being treated with my medication, I was a true a-s-hole to be married for 20 yrs. I can fully understand her wanting to get hers in now, so I try to just chill out, and keep my mouth shut, and say "you're right".
It's marriage - right?