I'm with eskielover on this one. I am a woman who prefers talking to men. Women seem to prefer talking about stuff like dresses and fashion and arts and crafts and things that I really have no interest in. I do have feminine interests, but I am almost always the only woman in my department at work, and I am very comfortable there.

I always figured it's because my abuser was a woman, and overall, I find men to be more trustworthy than women. It also seems to me that with men, what you see is pretty much what you get, unless they are some sort of pervert or something, but even then, I can sense them and make it a point to avoid them.

I don't think there's a right or wrong way to socialize as long as you are comfortable with it.