Well a few weeks ago my best friend open up to me about her true feelings towards me and I feel the same way but the only thing is I'm married so I just am confused and don't know what to do. I have been with my husband coming up on 10 years this April and I just can't throw away the last 10 years for nothing. I asked him if we could have an open relationship and I was told no he said he would be jealous because we talk all the time and he doesn't want me to leave him for her. So I just feel confused and don't know what to do!!