I'm just wondering as it seems it's only meant for married couples and long-term partners. I've only been with my partner for a few month, but we both have serious sexual dysfunctions and it bothers me to no end all the time. Other than low libido (both of our sex drives are usually high), we seem to have every other problem that might affect someone sexually. For me that means I can't stay aroused, foreplay is uncomfortable/painful, I can't orgasm ever. It got to the point that I had to stop all attempts at sex (foreplay or intercourse) because I don't think blindly attempting the same tiny repertoire of activities is going to magically cause it to work like he seems to think. I'm not sure if it's that he's unwillingly to expand or he just doesn't know how. And what am I supposed to do, I have less experience than him! It was weird that I knew more sex positions than him as a virgin…Not to mention that I can't mention anything I might be interested in because when I do it gets shot down. I guess it's all gross so I just keep it to myself.

Also, without being mean, how do I ask him to please address his own sexual dysfunction? I think he takes my patience and acceptance as meaning he doesn't need to work on it when I would like to actually experience intercourse once in my life the way it's supposed to be and not like this.

Back to my original question, even though we haven't been together very long, is it reasonable to see a sex therapist already? I feel our relationship has so much potential that will be destroyed if we keep trying and failing to figure out sex on our own.

Edit: I should also add that we're both young and healthy otherwise, so it's most likely completely psychological for both of us. Besides, I already had a full check-up about a month or two ago and everything was fine physically then.