Who decreed those milestones???


I thought milestones were more like, eating solid food, sitting up, crawling, walking, talking, etc.


Those type of things HAVE to happen in a healthy developing human.


The "milestones" you mentioned are completely OPTIONAL goals...

I know women who plan to get married and become stay at home moms...

They wouldn't view a lack of Ivy League education and career as missing any particular milestones...

How do I deal?

I've tweaked my goals, to suite my needs. Which was actually pretty damn easy since I could never make up my mind and stick to a path to begin with.

Stupid identity disturbance.


I'm admittedly not moving along this path as fast as I had hoped, and I have to remind myself not to compare... Because *****it, I have boulders in my road other people don't have to contend with!