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No, by all means, I'm glad you were honest.

Being with this man was was something I did in my more 'promiscuous' days, before I met my husband, before I calmed down a bit. I have often given thought to what it would be like to be the wife. My 'lol' is similar to what I do in therapy-- I often laugh at things that I am not very proud of. Helps to ease it rather than confront it, you know?

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Pink - thank you so much for not being offended and explaining your situation a little more. Laughing at ourselves during therapy is something I've been thinking about lately and I think I'll start an new thread on that.

I appreciate your comment about sunrise and I being advanced enough in our therapy to think about our T's as real people. I hope that is somewhat true, but I do have issues with wanting her to be my friend. She's the perfect friend -- insigntful, smart, not judgemental! I need to clone her (or I like the botteling idea that someone had in another thread).