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Originally Posted by agatha9
We were seeing each other every two weeks. Usually it just takes a few minutes, maybe a couple of hourse for him to text me back. He has never done this before.
It's a bit awkward with him, cause I did something I shouldn't have done and I know I may have hurt him. Two weeks ago was his birthday. The week before his birthday I fought with him and I stopped taking to him. On his birthday I posted a happy birthday e card on his wall and he texted me really happy the next day, but then again he said something that made me feel really mad at him and I told him I didn't want to be friends with him anymore. He insisted in trying to change whatever made me angry but I was "determined" to end up that friendship. One week later I confessed I was jaelous because one day I went with him to his dance class and even though I made the effort to be there, he insisted that his sister in law danced with us. His brother and that girl are friends of mine and they always go with him to that class. But that day I was there. Why he insisted in having that girl there too? Well, I told him this, we talked and he was sweet as always. Two days after that he stopped texting me back... I kinda feel like I deserve the silent treatment for being so immature, but still it hurts. I hate not knowing why he stopped texting back.
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Well you mentioned that he was sweet and everything before you said something about not being friends anymore. I have to be completely honest with you, I don't think you're giving all the details. You said to him that "you don't need all the drama" or something to that effect but truth be told it seems you've done things to make thim clam up, back away and then you blame him for drama.
What I see is (and this is from experience because I've been here) that you think of the worst things when anything negative happens, you ruminate, then spiral out of control obsessing and worrying about every little detail of any certain event. If a friend, bf or otherwise does indeed talk to you again, I feel you might then unleash on them either in emotional frenzied texts or messages or in some kind of very emotional state. Truth is, not every guy, or girl can handle too much of that without a very strong bond and relationship with the person already and if this is a new relationship that may be exactly what is happening.