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Old Dec 16, 2014, 06:18 PM
agatha9 agatha9 is offline
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Thank you, you are so right. I've been completely out of control. I know it's no excuse, but I am having such a rough time and I've been through so many losses this year, that I overreact every single time.

I told him I didn't want to be friends anymore about two weeks ago. I explained to him what was bothering me and I also told him that I couldn't stand him being so condescendent, not for the time being. A week later I told him that I hadn't been completely honest and that I had felt jaelous of his sister in law, cause he insisted on having her around when I really made an effort to be with him at some time and place. We talked and we realized how much we care about each other. He even told me that something I told him touched him to the point of making a tear fall down his cheek. He told me I am amazing and fascinating. Next day we talked about our passion for music and he told me he'd send me a recording where he is singing and that I would have to pay him back with a recording of mine. I told him not to pressure me, but that I would do it eventually. Next day I fell sick, so I asked him to cheer me up cause I felt really bad, he sent me a bear hug and I asked him to tell me joke, he did and that was it.

Last friday I wrote something like this "hey, I haven't heard from you in a while, I hope I haven't said something that upsets you... I can't talk much right now and I am definitely not to make a big deal out of this, but I really miss you." I don't find a proper translation for what I said, cause we are latin and we speak between us mostly in spanish, so... I thought I could translate what I said as drama, but it's more like "I can't talk about it the way we talk about a lot of stuff where we go in circles, I need it quick and straight to the point right now".

Then I uninstalled viber and the story goes as you already know. I believe it's just a misunderstanding and maybe I should call him.