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Old Dec 16, 2014, 07:26 PM
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I don't go out of my way to read body language, but it's there like it is with anybody, anywhere. I always react to it, but T doesn't always know what I am reacting to.

example of a time I reacted immediately...
Once I was in the middle of talking and suddenly my thoughts were blocked mid-sentence. I had no I idea what I had been saying, and he didn't throw me a rope at all and I was feeling stupid and he was just staring, and smirking. I remarked to him that these things happen to me a lot... and some people think its FUNNY. he was like "I don't think it's funny!!" I don't know if that's the truth or not, but that's how that went.

one that I reacted but not in a way he knew I was reacting to him..
I had a nightmare about T that were pretty horrible and clearly was uncovering some anger I had with him. So I read the whole thing from my journal and look up, and my normally Mr. chill looks more than a little tense, and manages to say. "So, what are your thoughts on that?" I felt kinda bad at that point and skipped to a more hopeful message that I saw towards the end.