My T is super physically expressive, and sometimes it's a bit confusing. One time I asked her if she was acting really sad on purpose (just the look on her face after I said something) so I would see that that was how I was supposed to feel about it, and she was confused and she said she hadn't realized she was doing it; she just gets sad in sessions with clients sometimes. That was honest.

But actually when I had a session with her yesterday, I could see that she was really upset by what I was telling her and there was a part of me that was a bit concerned about her body language just because I mentioned something related to sex, which I usually don't do, and she looked...judge-y. Well, incredulous maybe more so than judge-y, and I couldn't tell if it was because of what I was talking about (which to me was not a big deal at all) or who I was talking about (it happened to be someone who she is generally pretty judge-y/incredulous of), but it makes me worry that she would judge me if I brought up something relating to sex regarding myself...

So, in other words, I feel your pain with this. It might be a good idea to mention it to your T, but I can understand why that would be really difficult for you. It is for me.