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Originally Posted by Alone & confused
Sending you thoughts and encouragement! You can do this sweetheart! It's not selfish to take a minute to care for yourself once and awhile. After all, you have to keep up your own well being in order to take care of those who depend on you. I hope and pray all goes well with you and your son and mother! Stay strong, and take a moment or two for yourself as well! I know it's hard to put yourself first when so much depends on you, but you deserve to be at your best too!  |
Thanks for your kind words. People usually come to me for help. I find it hard to reach out for fear of rejection or disappointment. My mother is not one to say thank you, i love you, or I'm proud of you! I will never get that from her. My care is expected "That's why you have children" her words. Anyway I promised my dad on his death bed I would care for he. I do it with all my heart . I just wish she wasn't so hard on me and make me feel guilty. My son was discharged home today. He is such a trouper! Thanks for your kindness.