OK I am calming down now. Using my grounding exercises so I can start thinking rationally again. My son is going to go to his school counselor tomorrow and talk to her about how to fix this. I told him if he cannot get it resolved, to tell me, because then I will go have a meeting. He wants to try to fix it himself first. I will let him. Now that I am calmed down I realize of course that he can get student loans for college. His future is not destroyed. I am still getting used to letting myself feel my anger and perhaps that makes me over-react...