Thanks for your kind words. People usually come to me for help. I find it hard to reach out for fear of rejection or disappointment. My mother is not one to say thank you, i love you, or I'm proud of you! I will never get that from her. My care is expected "That's why you have children" her words. Anyway I promised my dad on his death bed I would care for he. I do it with all my heart . I just wish she wasn't so hard on me and make me feel guilty. My son was discharged home today. He is such a trouper! Thanks for your kindness.