I've called my T. on it a lot of times but mainly because of my transference. By telling her how she's coming across, I'm learning that I misread people a lot. Last session I remembered that somehow we started teasing each other and I lost the mood. The next session she mentioned me criticizing her for using her hands to talk. I had NO MEMORY of doing that which surprised her. So, yes I read into things but then I tell her. The other main feeling I call her on is frustration but that's mom stuff too. It helps her to know when I'm seeing it because it's usually always wrong. I'm learning that her "frustration" look happens when she's thinking.