I do not like talking to women who are too much into fashions or to men who are too geeky-sci-fi-video games-star wars - kind of guys.
In both cases, I dislike such talking because the topics are too boring to me. I have never associated it with gender - it is per topic for me.
I also dislike being in an all-men company of geeks because they drink beer and I hate beer. So I cannot share in the subject matter of their conversations and cannot even enjoy a lunch with them (beer and burgers - not my cup of tea).
Note that in most such cases, speaking one-on-one with a woman or a man who, in groups, shares such characteristics, can be perfectly OK and usually commonalities can be found. So to me it is about group dynamics and not expressiveness, emotional response, or gender per se. High heels and football are equally boring for me.
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