disparaissant, rent yourself (or stream to your device) the movie Moonstruck. Really drink in the monologue spoken by Nicolas Cage, where he declares that we humans are not in this world to be perfect. Stars and snowflakes are perfect, but we humans are here to screw up and get our hearts broke. And that's normal living. It's one of the most liberating speeches I've ever heard. And it's true, so true. It is our silly pride that makes us think that we are here to try and figure out how to be correct. That's not what we are here for.