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All of my best friends since I was a child have been women (including my first girlfriend) and with the exception one of my cousins and my female friends’ husbands I don’t have any male friends because I trouble trusting other men and feel more comfortable around women. Part of the reason for that is because my Dad was an abusive prick and all my old male friends didn’t want anything to do with me after they found out I had Asperger’s Syndrome, ADHD and OCD while my female friends were more accepting of it and it didn’t change the way they saw me. My sister has a hatred for men too after all the things our Father did to us and the only two guys she trust are me and her husband and my Wife has similar feelings from her past experiences and she says I am one of the few guys she trusts and the first guy she has ever loved.
I don’t mind not having many male friends though because my female friends have always been very supportive and loyal to me and I trust them with my life. They are all tomboyish in comparison to the girly girl type that only talks about fashion and dresses another member mentioned on the last page and we have a lot of things in common and my best friend and her girlfriend are like sisters to me. I am willing to be friends with other guys though.
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