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I asked him very directly, "what are you going to do about this?" in a no nonsense tone. It was almost like I was an employer and he was an employee, and I was demanding accountability and better job performance. Later, I realized that I kind of am his employer!

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Congrats to you for dealing with this the way that you did. You are right.... all parts of the equasion... he, you and your husband (when he is there) are all accountable.

You are so right on.... Good for you!