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Old Dec 17, 2014, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted by wolfgaze View Post
"I'm sorry, I can't do it this time"

"I'm sorry, I'm not available to help you right now"

"I'm sorry, I'm busy and won't be able to assist you"

It's the 'nice' way of saying NO : )

It may only feel difficult for you at first but you'll get the hang of it. The people who are constantly coming to you for things have made a habit out of it because they know you will oblige. A couple refusals of unreasonable requests and they will get the hint (message) quickly and start to leave you alone or they will search for someone else to take advantage of.

YES THATS IT.... I feel people are taking advantage of me. I will work on politely saying no and saying Im sorry before hand might be a handy way to break the ice
Thanks!
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