Hello sarahhxx03,

The heart rules over the head in love doesn't it. I feel your pain. We can't tell you what to do but this reads as a roller coaster ride. Are you prepared for that to continue? The other thing I have noticed is that you are looking at his needs and reasons for the way he is but what about your needs? It's all very well understanding his reactions but do you deserve to be treated badly because of how how was treated by his ex girlfriend? Another question for you to think about is this... would you still want to be with this guy in ten years time if the relationship continues in this way?