I won't do a super long rant, just want some general feedback about what to do about MIL. I have only known her for 6 months because she was estranged from DH for over 10 years, like my mother she's an alcoholic so I don't really feel comfortable being around her and definitely not around our baby (8 months); however I gave her the benefit of the doubt since she says she changed (she still drinks, just not at bars as much) and DH is trying to reconnect again, the problem is I asked her to her face point blank if she had a problem with me and she said no, but DH told me pretty much everytime she gets drunk she talks about me like dog! The one time she called me a "that" (DH is white, I'm black) and then said I was trying to take him away from her. So she "apologized" to me through him and now I'm supposed to make nice and invite her over for xmas I just want to be done with her and move on. So should I yet again sweep all this under the rug or stand my ground and move on?