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Originally Posted by sarahhxx03
he's 23, has parents & step-parents, I did put about his ex (before me) on this post, he wants to go back to college for electronic things, he has a job, he def wants kids.
I did text him & say we needed to talk in person ASAP. I asked him if he even cares or misses me, he said yea. I asked if I'm even worth fighting for, he said "yea, that's why I still want you in my life"... thats it so far.
& yes we had fights about mostly my stuff. I would get mad at dumb things like him being friends with a girl even though I have guy friends. I trust him, just not other girls..
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It's good that you said you want to talk and he sounds like he does care for you.
One thing I have to comment on and this as a person on the other end of jealousy at times in my life. The comment that you trust him but not other girls completely contradicts what you just said. If you trust him, then you know he wouldn't do anything with other girls no matter what. NO matter what the other girl is like. When you make it sound like it's all about the girls coming onto him it assumes he, as a guy has no sense of control and would not be able to resist. If you trust that he does, then it doesn't matter how hard the other girls try. Please give him credit for being able to be exclusive with you when you're back together.
I come from a long relationship where my now ex had the same mind set, in fact it was almost word for word. As a man it says to me that the woman that thinks this way deems me too weak to be trusted around women becuase clearly i have no ability to resist. in a nutshell you're not trusting him at all.