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Originally Posted by sarahhxx03
you know, he had any chance to leave when we had like a billion fights over the same stuff. & he didn't. he stayed, & dealt with my b.s. & he STILL wants to be in my life. I well kinda feel stupid now & how I treated him ... I hope I didn't ruin it..
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Don't feel stupid. Just acknowledge that you have issues in this area and pay attention to it. focus on what you just said to me regularly and it will affect how you interact with him and how the relationship grows.
The irrational mind, IMO is driven but things like fears, insecurities and such based on things outside of what may be right in front of us. Many times we all tend to let those things drown out reality. It takes effort to fight those things. Otherwise this place would not exist at all.