(((((((((((Seeker))))))))))))))
I can relate.
If you've been hurt than it makes sense that you're a little shy about opening yourself up again. I understand that, I'm the same way. If it bothers you a lot though, then maybe you need to try again-just serious dating though and hold off with the sex for a long time until you've really gotten to know the guy and have become good friends with him. If in this time you see that he's a caring individual who respects you and wants to treat you well then maybe something inside of you will awaken.
You're fine, Seeker. Your sex kitten is probably hibernating right now. She'll come back out when you're ready.