Hi NoChildSupport
I know how hard this whole situation has been on you and what a toll it has taken on you emotionally and I am sorry for that.
It's so hard to accept when someone does not reciprocate what we give and I am sure that you do have a lot to offer your cousin.
But unfortunately for whatever reason she is not being responsive.
My suggestion would be, go back to your original decision.
Previously you had posted that you would not make contact with her.
Then you recanted this decision, contacted her, she didn't contact you back, you got upset, and so the cycle continued.
And it will keep continuing.
It just doesn't sound to me as if your cousin is ready to meet you half way - and that's a shame because she could be missing out on something valuable that you have to give.
Maybe it's time to step aside, not away, just step aside, and let her make contact with you.
I hope that this all works out for you.
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