Thank you! This is really really helpful! I must say that I am unemployed now, but when I was at work it was exactly the same. I don't know why but I can't hear the alert without feeling like running to answer the call or text or whatever. It gets worse now with smartphones... Facebook alert, Twitter alert, email... Aaaaarrrrrghhhhh!!! I need to just ignore that sound.

I have been trying not to answer immediately, like while I'm driving or spending some time with friends and family. A few years ago it would have been unbelievable for me to wait five days without asking a guy why he isn't calling (not why he is not responding). This year I finally could just let them be. If they texted me I was ok with it, if they didn't I was also fine, until now. But I guess deep down I was feeling guilty for having treated him that way.

Thank you again for all your support!!!