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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Right or wrong, I am glad that it was something with an explanation.
I know you've been through a number of losses as you've said and I know this will be hard to do but with this guy, you should try to start fresh. Every person is individual, and even if you were left 100 times or some other ridiculous number it has no bearing on the person you are involved with now. Make this a new beginning, whatever may happen. Let it be what it is on it's own. Hope this helps  |
Thank you!!! Something I really like about this guy is that he is so special that I can compare him only to my best friends. He is just like himself.
This year I have almost lost my uncle. He's been diagnosed with dementia or alzheimers, doctors can't tell after almost a whole year. But the point is that I was particularly close to my uncle. He's been the closest to a father I have had and now that he's been sick we have lost communication. Nothing's the same.
About a month ago I lost my furbrother. After 16 and a half years of the purest love I have known he passed away. I'm a single child and he meant the world to me. His death was really shocking. We still miss him a lot and the house feels empty without him. Sometimes we forget he's gone. And I've had a lot nightmares about his death, so...
I lost my job too, so this has been a really tough year. Luckily, this guy was already there when my furbaby died, so he knows that I'm not really ok.
Thank you again for your advice.