I know you can develop an eye for attractiveness. I am not talking about sexual attractiveness but just appreciating the beauty of people. I grew up among white, black and Indian people. I did not see Asian faces when growing up. It was like imprinting. When I moved to California, most Asian female faces seemed ugly to me, whereas those perfectly symmetrical East Indian female faces with large moist brown eyes looked beautiful to me, probably because I grew up seeing such faces.

It took me a lot of effort and many years of trying to find beauty in Asian women, but now I have arrived and it feels so much more pleasant - because we have so many of them here, just walking through a shopping center and seeing so many attractive faces is a pleasant experience.

I also learned to see just how varied Asian faces are. When I first moved to California, Asian women looked the same to me. Now I know that other than all having straight black hair and brown eyes, they are as varied as white women's faces. And they have very attractive, charming, whimsical faces and a unique sense of style.

This is as a far as purely aesthetic appreciation of female beauty goes, but - it took me 20 years to arrive at this happy station, and I am sure you want a quick solution. The only possibly helpful tidbit from my experience for you is that I LOOKED, LOOKED, and finally SAW. I was not expecting to be WOWed - I tried seeing the beauty and finally succeeded.