This lady sounds sooooo much like my mother. Only im 62 and my mother is 86. Many years ago, she saw a fortune teller who said she would die when she was 84. Apparently the fortune teller did not foresee cardiac stents - i swear the old lady will outlive me, with her replacement parts!

Get a therapist, get a lawyer, get a job, get the girl, and get out. Your mom will be fine. She will say she was doing all of this because YOU wanted it.