Well, here I am again. I am starting to wonder if something else is going on. He has been saying that he is too tired for sex. How can you say that you love someone, but not feel desire for them? I don't get it. We ended up arguing instead of making love. In desperation I said that I was going to resume an old medication which would effectively kill my libido. He actually looked relieved! I got upset about that, and asked if he really wanted me to kill my libido just so that he wouldn't feel pressure? He said that he had thought it was a good idea because it would make our libidos more equal. Little does he know that if I were to resume that medication, I would lose ALL desire to have sex. I would feel numb and detatched from everything. Maybe he should have married one of the Stepford Wives! I am planning to seek counseling.