Well, first off, people wouldn't react to this because simply put, it's not their business, it has nothing to do with them, and you certainly don't need to disclose this to anyone.

Look. I think of it this way. What the hell were THEY doing on this online site. They knew what the site was about. They knew what they were getting themselves in for. You didn't solicit them. They were on the site already. And they were just playing games and being quite childish by the sounds of things.

Yeah you had a bit too much to drink and lost inhibition - but - this was an online thing and one you best put in the past. It's not like you'd do this again.

I'm actually sorry that they played you for a fool. It's pretty disgraceful of them actually.