i've only called once. i was like 'PLEASE have an answerphone message PLEASE have an answerphone message' and he did :-) and it was in his voice :-) that was what i really needed...

i txt message him lol. i can email, but he won't really respond by email. thats ok (so long as he doesn't promise to respond by email). phone is hard... i don't like phone... i wouldn't like to talk to him on the phone... but txt messages are pretty cool :-)

maybe i'll get better at the phone thing, though. i guess ideally i'd give him a quick call if the trauma stuff was hard. to kind of refuel and help me reorient. but i dunno... i guess if i'm calling i should probably call the dr's rooms and go via secretary... but i dunno...