Step-father already passed away, then mom did. In her will I was made Executor and I had an older brother & sister. That can be very tricky, but I carried out her will, by her attorney, as she requested. For some reason, for untold years, mom and my older sister never saw I to I. Other extended family members funerals always had problems, and disagreements between mom & daughter. I think sister was closer to one very rich brother of mom, than she was. Crazy stuff always going on between the two.