hey, so I have this boyfriend, we've been going together for almost 2 months now, and I love him very much, but I think I am the one who cares more about the reletionship. Right now he is staying with me until Julyish, because he and a friend want to room together, but they have to wait until some lease ends, and the friend can take new roomies. Now, I like living with him, and he is welcome to stay until the friend can take him, but you'd think when 2 people live together, they'd spend some time together other than eating and sleeping. We don't. He leaves for his job at 10, sometimes a little earlier dropping me off at my job when I have to go in, and then doesn't get home until 10 or 11 at night, eating here occasionally, then going to sleep. He has to spend Sundays alone at the office, so he can play WoW with his friends. I get Saturdays, but he is also supposed to come home early 2-3 nights a week, but if he does it one night a week, and just goes to eat, and then to sleep, I consider myself a very lucky woman. I do all our cleaning, all our laundry, all our cooking, and work on top of it. I know he loves his job and all, but shouldn't there be time for me? Am I the one who is in this reletionship? I know there is something wrong with this picture, and is there anything I can do, or just realize that I am the one in this, enjoy it while it lasts, and figure that with him having these problems keeping his promises to me, that it won't last long after he moves out? Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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I am a very shy quiet person that wants to be able to have a place to just talk, where nobody knows my facade, and won't judge me, but maybe just maybe, will end up liking me for me. Odd concept in todays world, I know, but a girl can dream.
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