hey there. if i had that experience with a therapist then i would not return to that therapist. i've had that experience before actually and i walked out and didn't go back. i sent her an email explaining that i wanted help making sense of my life, sure, because there was a lot that i didn't know how to make sense of. if she is determined that its all about sexual abuse, however, then i don't think she is so interested in figuring things out with me as she is interested in imposing her views (probably as a result of some agenda).

maybe there is abuse that you have forgotten or maybe there isn't. sounds like you really don't think so.

i hear you. i'm in the same boat.

there are a variety of things that can lead to problems later in life... personally... i think mine come down to intensely dysregulated negative emotions. don't think they were caused by sexual abuse but you know i kind of find the causes of the experiences of a whole heap less interest than the actual experiences that i'm suffering with.

i simply can't work with someone who doens't feel / believe similarly.