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Dec 18, 2014 at 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by GoneTooLong
Hello.
I have been an internet message board poster for over 20 years now. Big fan of sports, and I have let my feelings be known about my teams over. And over. And over.
To put it as succinctly as I can, if you do not agree with my assessments, I typically take issue with you.
What I have noticed is that over time, I able to have a "take it or leave it" approach to message boards. I can go for days on end without having the need to post.
I have often wondered if I am manic, but I do not feel that I am. Never get any real high highs or low lows. Have battled depression for years, and I also get anxiety bouts from time to time.
Back to the message board issue, I have been reading up quite a bit on Internet Trolling, and I wonder if that fits my description. Typically, I have viewed my "trolling" more as pushing buttons. I don't make threats. I have never had an issue letting people know my identity. I...........just like to push buttons.
I can be found telling people that their sports comments are idiotic, because, I truly feel they are idiotic. I have read literature that talks about how trolls will try and destroy 'positive' or 'perfect' comments/situations. I don't feel I am that way.
Another example. People might take issue with swearing on message boards. So, I will respond with profanity, simply to see the reaction.
People might post that there was a death in the family, or a loved one is ill. Unless I really have an issue with that poster (where I simply will not comment), I typically offer condolences.
I have spoken with friends of mine about this, and oddly enough, they laugh at my schtick. Their diagnosis- I am immature. I act 25 years younger than I am, which, I do in many facets of my life. I work in a career that is very serious and very professional, and often, it feels as if I use these message boards to "let my hair down", so to speak.
Anyone ever run across something like this?
Thank you.
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got to say it. what you posted are actually ways in which you will probably end up getting kicked off the site. may I make a suggestion....before you decide to start trouble with other members maybe you can have a private conversation with the moderators. they are here to help with things like how to post and get your point across without going against the rules of this place.
let me give you an example.. Im a no nonsense type person comes with my job. coming fresh from work and to this website sometimes I can be a bit hard on people. I could come on here swearing and putting people down, or being a bit too gruff, but its my responsibility as a member here not to bring my work attitude and problems on other members.
the great thing about psych central is that if you know you may have a problem that might affect others there's help here in the moderating team. Just say the word and they will set up your account so that they can help you with your postings. this is called being under moderation. I know I have a problem that may affect others so I send my posts to the moderating team first, they review the post, then either send it back to me with some helpful tips or they post it on the boards for me. This way my medication problems and work stress does not end up harming others.
Suggestion....since you know you may end up causing some problems for yourself and others, maybe you can talk with the moderating team (they are the ones who's names appear in colors.)
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