Actually when I was about to tell him the thing about how much I hate looking at his wedding ring, I said to him, "I need to close my eyes when I tell you this..." And he was fine with that. I find that I do often close my eyes while talking to him. It's like I want to experience the relationship on all different levels... sometimes visually, but then I like to take away the visual and see what it's like to experience it on a level without seeing him. I often do that when I go to a concert or a poetry reading. Close my eyes to limit one of my senses.... strengthens the other, increases the feeling, or experiences it on a different level. Wish I could do that with him in regards to touch. Don't think he'd go for it, lol.