Whether there was abuse that you don't recall, or no abuse at all, you should never feel as though a therapist is swaying you to one side or another. If you feel like this, you definitely need to address it. A good therapist should just guide and facilliate you so that stuff comes out-- whatever it is-- they may be able to lead you towards something... you know, like say you have control issues or something, but you aren't ready to admit it... a therapist may see it, and lead you to admiiting it yourself... but as far as something like abuse... you shouldn't feel pushed by your therapist.