so I keep getting told by my boyfriend that...there is certain ways....things in social circles work...

but it seems like way too much for me to wrap my head around....

like for one thing there are two of his male friends that i am getting to know and that i wish to become friends with...and it seem like we are friends....

but then when I try to ask them to add me as friends on facebook they don't.....I don't understand how this works what so ever..

Or apparently there is a unspoken rule.....its a good thing for couples to hang out with other couples. But it can make a single friend feel awkward or like a third wheel I guess if you are hanging out with them.... when you both are together.

its depressing for me cause it seems like building and maintaining friendships comes fairly easily for my boyfriend david and for me I am just kind of left in the dark...trying to do things as best I can..