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Old Dec 19, 2014, 02:16 AM
kraken1851 kraken1851 is offline
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Hello Red,

Thank you for asking here!

Basically, what everyone else said! It is always safest to ask in a quiet moment. The other safe option is to simply use the first name a person gave. It my sound a bit odd at first, but like that you can be certain to get it right.

You very welcome to read here and ask questions! We've had a few incidents where we felt a cisgendered person blamed us for making things unnecessarily complicated when it comes to language (such a mine field!). But normally we're fun to be with [emoji16]