How did he become your b/f in the first place if he doesn't have time for you??

To me, there's a whole lot wrong with this picture. Why are you cleaning up after him and doing his laundry? He's a big boy! He should be doing it himself! Is he helping you with the rent and utilities??

Too late in life I learned to make very few demands on people that are close to me. What I get from them, I want it to be because they want to be that way; attentive, thoughtful, generous with a big part of their life. They are who they are. I know it's not my place to change them. Besides, we can't change others. We can only change ourselves.

If your man isn't who or what you want, then move on! Life is hard enough as it is. Why put yourself through more trouble and misery? It's not worth it!