wow, odd story behind that, he does help with rent and utilities, but I found it odd that he told me he loved me about 3 days b4 he had to have a new place to live. He used to want to spend all his time with me, now, he's never here, in fact I am writing this at near 11 my time, and he still isn't home. I do his laundry and clean for him as a courtesy, so that when he does get home, he might spend some time with me........but that is obviously failing. I know he loves his job, but what am I supposed to do about him basically using me to feed his cat, clean, and do his laundry, which the laundry-mat costs, and he has me pay for it, when he makes a lot more money than I do. I do everything for him, and don't see much in return. I really must be horrid at this gf thing.