I guess maybe it feels like sitting and staring if they don't know how to do it, because I've had that happen (but not with this therapist). I was hoping maybe it would be something more interactive. The therapist I'm seeing now mentioned it at the end of my last session, so I didn't have a chance to follow up and ask if it meant sitting and staring at me like a lump. I do think she's more "there" than any of the others, so maybe it would be different and less alienating.