View Single Post
 
Old Dec 19, 2014, 11:05 AM
Crook32's Avatar
Crook32 Crook32 is offline
Grand Poohbah
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 1,897
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lady Lindsey View Post
Trust is so hard. And just having that discussion with the new t. In itself would be difficult for me.
Question to ask yourself

Do you feel you connect with this T?

Do you think eventually you can trust this T and she trust you?

Did you interview this T? Or was it just someone in the same practice that picked up your retiring T.

If you dont feel you connect you can always stay with the t temporarily but at the same time reach out to other t and interview them or do a get to know you meeting. During these meetings ask how long they plan on staying in practice and any other questions or concerns you might have. I wrote a list of things down so I wouldnt forget. Because I get real anxious when I am sitting with a new t

I understand the trust issue and how hard it is.

I just terminated with my t. My chice and it was ugly...
Because I pivked the wrong t and the connection was never there for me.

This T is with a different practice and she is the owner so I know she won't be leaving anytime soon. But for some reason that does not reassure me.

I think I could connect with this T but am just having a hard time doing that right now. She is different from my last T because she doesn't let me get away with stuff she definitely makes me work harder. Which is probably a good thing because I am good at avoiding things.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Last edited by Crook32; Dec 19, 2014 at 11:26 AM.
Thanks for this!
Lady Lindsey