So, we've discussed it and have decided to go. The problem now is that there really aren't any sex therapists where we live. Most of them are in the next city over which is a bit too far to drive back and forth yet another time each week, especially in the middle of the day. The only other option is a male therapist in the city we live in who specializes in these issues (but isn't officially a Certified Sex Therapist), but I'm terrified of/hate most men, so going to a male therapist would be very difficult for me.